A wedding day…possibly the most money you will ever spend in one day, other than a home purchase.
Budget is usually the driving force behind wedding planning. Every action you take has a price tag attached, and if you move without a plan you can see your budget get out of control quicker than a Bruce Lee punch. So then what do you do?
You adjust. You trim the fat. You take the package below the one you had your heart set on, opting for the one you can afford without dipping into your 401K. In short; you make it work.
However, planning ahead can help take some of this edge off. See how many favors you can call in. Who has something you can borrow and make it work for your day? Is there a discount for getting married on a Friday or Sunday instead of a Saturday?
Lots of friends of yours are probably sitting on elements you can use toward your day, as well, with little or no cost involved. All you need is a little creativity to put things together.
While we were planning our wedding, I saw that someone had a bucket of pebbles they were giving away for free in a Craigslist ad. I contacted them, picked them up, and BOOM, we had the filling for the vases at our reception. Total cost = zero dollars. We were able to afford to serve sandwiches later in the evening at the dance with some of our leftover money.
We shot a wedding where the bride had set up a wheel of fortune game instead of simply kissing every time someone clinked their glasses. It had different results every time it was spun, such as the spinner might have to sing a song to get them to kiss or had to kiss someone themselves. Lots of fun. When someone we got married later, they were looking for something fun for their reception. We suggested this game and contacted the bride to see if we could rent it from her. She was gracious enough to just let us borrow it, as it was gathering dust in her garage. The cousin had a great game at the reception which everyone enjoyed, without spending a dollar.
So if you’re budget is stretched, take a look at what you have, what you want, and what you need. You might be able to think outside the box and get everything you wanted but thought you couldn’t afford.